A lovely blog from Dani about New Year’s resolutions, serving your Mistress and what it takes to be a sissy maid for a Mistress like Me…

Thursday, 31 December 2015

A slave’s New Year resolutions

It’s that time again where everyone gets drunk and makes rash promises for the New Year which sometimes they keep for as long as a week or two…usually involving a post Christmas diet and de-toxing from drinking too much alcohol.

Well for a slave to a fabulous Dominatrix like Mistress Scarlett Thorne this time of year should represent something much more important, a cherished moment in your relationship with the Superior Being in your miserable life where you can pledge something substantial to Her that will benefit Her life and in turn make you a better, more worthy slave (although REMEMBER you can NEVER be worthy of the huge privilege of serving a Mistress).

Having just completed my fifth year of servitude to Mistress Scarlett Thorne i have some experience on solemn promises to a Domme, most of which i have kept although some i have broken much to my great shame, regret and pain (from Mistress).

The first piece of advice is making a resolution to your Mistress and Owner is no light matter. It is a pledge that should never be broken until and if you are released from it by Mistress Herself. i am still in the process of suffering three days worth of punishment (to the second) years after i broke chastity. Other failures saw me banished from Scarlett Thorne’s presence, i was extremely lucky to be forgiven. Failure is not an option, even if it is rare.

i would also suggest that you don’t over promise, by which i mean promise too many things. A life of service gives you plenty of time to make many promises and for Mistress to force many more other indignities and suffering on to you. So at New Year make one big promise, focus on it and make sure you keep it.

In terms of what you promise it should involve things which are genuinely useful to Mistress or amuse Her. It could be to remove your hair, go on a diet, or improve your feminisation activities to make you better to be pimped out by Mistress. If you are a maid it could be simply to improve on how much time you give to Mistress and the effecitiveness of your cleaning.

my top tip though is something that materially improves your Owner’s life. So you could decide to make sure you provide Her with a monthly tribute whether You session with Her or not. 

This is an excellent sign of devotion and one which always pleases a Mistress. It is something i do for Scarlett Thorne, along with my almost daily service as a maid and other things. i know i am very lucky to be allowed in Her presence so much which is worth far more than any money i could ever hope to give Her.

i would advise against chastity as a New Year’s resolution. This is something Mistress decides to do to you not the other way round.

So what resolution will be my promise to Mistress Scarlett Thorne for 2016?

i am already in chastity, She has forced me on to a strict diet and to give up alcohol, and i have to constantly improve on my service as a maid etc (it is never good enough and never will be), i am always striving to earn more as an escort and i pay a monthly tribute to Mistress.

One change for 2016 is to do exercises which improve my feminine shape such as sit ups for a firm tummy, back exercises to be more flexible and squats to get a bigger bum. i also plan to get surgery to improve myself as a girl and so be of more use to Scarlett Thorne and more pleasing on Her eye.
This will be my resolution for 2016, but the main promise to Mistress will be the one i make every day in my daily mantra to Her:

“Serving Scarlett Thorne is a privilege not a right, i must WORK HARDER and SUFFER MORE to deserve it”.